Only Date Women Who Treat You With Respect

When you meet a woman, and you like the way she looks on the outside, you should always ask yourself one simple question: "Does she treat me with respect, or not?" YOU should of course also treat women with respect, because if you don't, you are not really entitled to ask this question. If you want to be treated with respect by women, the first step should obviously be to treat women with respect.

The reason I talk about respect here, is that even if you refuse to socialize with women who do not treat you with respect, you will improve the quality of your relations with women tremendously. Here are some examples of things to pay attention to; of behavior of women, that shows a lack of respect:

1. You go out to have coffee, and she just assumes that you will pay the bill, without asking you or bringing up the subject.

2. You hardly know a woman and she talks endlessly about her problems, and expects you to listen patiently.

3. She makes negative statements about men in your presence, like, "All men are selfish.", or "Men only want sex."

4. You have an appointment with her, and she shows up very late, and she does not apologize nor explain why she is late.

5. You are out on a date, and she talks continuously with girlfriends on her mobile phone, instead of talking to you.

6. She does not thank you when you drive her somewhere, hold something for her, or carry things for her. This is a sign that she thinks she has the right to treat you like her driver and butler.

7. She flirts with every man in sight, but criticizes you when you even look at other women.
8. Instead of using your real name, she makes up funny names for you, and uses these names to amuse herself.

9. She ridicules you in front of her friends, and laughs about your mistakes together with her friends.

10. She talks behind your back about you in a negative way, informing all her friends about things she hates about you.

By themselves these things may not mean much to you, but especially when she shows several of these behaviors, you are with a woman who thinks she can treat you with very little to no respect. If you allow her to treat you without respect, she will in no time walk all over you, and put her wishes first, instead of talking with you about how the two of you want to have your relationship. So when a woman starts to treat you without respect, you have to respond quickly, and there are only two constructive ways to react:

1. You tell her calmly that you do not accept to be treated this way, and that if she wants to be with you, she will have to change this.

2. You tell her that you don't want a woman who treats you without respect, and you walk away, and don't look back.

This may sound harsh, but when you allow yourself to be treated without respect, it will soon go from bad to worse. Because when you do not draw a line, when you do not give an indication about how you expect to be treated, some women will first test you and then walk all over you. You can compare it with having a little wound on your hand. If you disinfect it quickly, it will heal soon, and you won't have any problems with it. If you don't disinfect it and pretend it is not there, you may soon have a big festering wound that will threaten your health.

Mostly, when a woman treats you without respect, she does so to test you. When you calmly correct her, you will gain her respect, and she will start to treat you with respect. Some women just plain refuse to treat men with respect, in which case you should walk away at once. The thing to remember is this: women can only treat you without respect with your permission. Once you notice that a woman treats you without respect and you do not react to it, you give her the unspoken permission to treat you without respect.

If you want to improve the quality of your relationships with women, you should stop giving women permission to treat you without respect.